Have you been dating a great man for awhile now, but still wondering how he really feels about you? Of course, you feel like you’re in love, but does he feel the same way? No one wants to be in a relationship with someone where the feelings are not reciprocated. When that happens, you’ll have to determine if you’re going to go or continue wasting your time. I’m here to help you figure that out and give you 5 ways to tell he’s falling in love with you.
No one wants to be in a relationship with someone where the feelings are not reciprocated. When that happens, you’ll have to determine if you’re going to go or continue wasting your time. I’m here to help you figure that out and give you 5 ways to tell he’s falling in love with you.
He Gives You His Time
When a man wants to spend quality time with you, that’s a sure-fire way to know that he’s falling in love with you. Men who are only in it to get you between the sheets, want to get the most doing the least. You’ll recognize that type of guy by how many times he arranges dates that don’t involve sex.
A man who is truly interested in you will want to do whatever he needs to do to spend every second he can with you. When I met my boyfriend, he wanted to spend every off day with me. I thought it was excessive and that he was too clingy. This is a stark contrast from my ex who I would have to practically beg for time with him.
He Introduces You to His Family
When a man starts having feelings for a woman, he’s going to want to show her off to the world. Before he does that, however, he’s going to want to introduce her to the people who mean the most to him – his family. As much as he knows how beautiful, smart, and funny you are, the more likely he wants his family to know that about you as well.
If a man is really interested in you, and especially if he sees a future with you, he’ll introduce you to his family. Though he’s a grown, there’s something about a man getting acceptance from his family. If you’ve met his mother, father, sister, grandmother, and drunk uncle – you best believe you have this man’s heart.
He Takes Care of You
You can bet your bottom dollar your man is falling in love with you if he tries to take care of you in his own little way. Men are providers and they take pride in taking care of their woman. A man falling in love will make sure his woman’s car is washed. Anything he can do to make his girlfriends life a little easier, he’ll do it.
A friend of mine had a minor fender bender but was pretty shaken up about it. She called her boyfriend to vent and he came right over to be with her. Even though the police was there and he knew he would be late for work, he stopped what he was doing to make sure she was okay. I told her at this moment that he was falling in love with her.
He Includes You in Everything
If a man is making future plans and includes you in them, then it’s pretty obvious he sees you in his life long term. When a man speaks in the future with a lot of “I’s” instead of “we’s”. It’s a good sign he’s not planning on being with you for that long. It’s also obvious he’s not in love with you (or at least not yet).
I knew my boyfriend was falling in love with me, whenever he would speak about events in the future and it was assumed I knew I was included. Well, I didn’t, not until then. If you overhear him telling his mom that “we” will be there for Thanksgiving, it’s a good sign he’s in love.
He Smiles At You – A Lot
If you catch your man looking at you across the room with a big grin on his face, you can bet your fanny he’s loving what he sees. The sight and thought of you give him the fuzzy wuzzies and his heart is melting for you. This is a good sign that the man is head over heels in love with you and thinks you’re the best thing since sliced bread.
Still not convinced? Then maybe you should either reevaluate your relationship or give it more time. Just because he hasn’t fallen in love with you yet, doesn’t mean he won’t. Some men take longer than others or maybe he’s just hiding his feelings until he knows they’re reciprocated.